Saturday, April 4, 2015

New Beginnings

Like it says in the intro, this is my second time going through the Day Zero project.  Why am I doing this again?  I really did have fun with it before, even though there were times I forgot about and times I wished it would go away.  It got me to do some things that I had been procrastinating for years and some things I had never thought about before hearing about the project.  It gave me a way to bond with some of my friends --  the one who got me to join the project in the first place and the friend that decided to make her own list after I talked about it.  And it helped me look at my own life a little differently and learn some things about myself.

So lets talk about this new list.  I started writing down ideas for a new list not long after I started the first one!  By the time I sat down and seriously started writing out my 101 projects, I already had almost sixty items.  In the end, I had 113, which gave me the opportunity to pare it down to the things I most wanted to accomplish (although there are definitely still a few silly things in there!).  My life has changed a lot since I started the first list in 2011... I lost my oldest friend, my godchildren, my pet, and my job.  I gained new friends, a kitten, part of my old job back, and a better relationship with my father.  If there were a scale to measure my life now against my life then, I'm not sure things are quite in balance yet, so I tried to put things in my list that will add to my life in positive ways and things that will make me happy.  I also swore that after last time I would not have things on my list that require me to do things multiple times!  I cannot tell you how many times I wanted to smack myself for having things like "do item A six times"!  The repetition, while sometimes meaningful, made it tedious and neverending.  So I did it again.  Yes, yes, I know.  But I decreased the frequencies on the times I did it, and I only have four items that will last the length of the whole project (including posting updates on this very blog!).  And I solemnly swear not to complain about having to do things more than once in order to cross it off my list.  If I try it, call me out.

Once again, I included reasons for why I chose each item for the list.  I think it makes it interesting for you, and it helps me remember why I felt those things were important.  It also helped me when I was trying to narrow down the list to the 101... if it was something I had seen on someone else's list but I couldn't come up with a good reason, then obviously it didn't resonate for me and it got cut.  I also decided to group things into categories.  I liked this idea when I saw it on other people's lists, and I decided it would help me better see what kinds of things I was doing.  I am also hoping it will help me keep track of the list for myself.  It sounds crazy, but there were many times I would review my list and think "that's on my list?  I don't remember putting that on there!".

I'm excited about this!  Tomorrow is day 1 out of 1001.  We are set to end December 31, 2017 (wow, that sounds so far away!), and I am excited about celebrating the end of this project and New Year's with my friend who talked me into doing this the first time around.  I didn't finish my list last time, and I'm okay with that, but I want to finish this one.  So here we go... 5, 4, 3, 2, 1...

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